When it comes to Emotional Intelligence (EQ) training, there are many commercial off-the-shelf programs to choose from, and they vary widely in terms of learning objectives and the experiences they provide. To add to the confusion, there are many different models of emotional intelligence, making the decision even more perplexing. This paper outlines key criteria to consider when choosing an EQ program, along with important questions to ask when evaluating EQ training programs. Along the way we discuss problems with some traditional EQ programs.